Comments on: Stop Waxing And Get Yourself A Pubic Wig http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/ SF Appeal: San Francisco's Online Newspaper Sun, 06 May 2018 15:59:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.24 By: Karen Elizabeth McMichael http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-16660 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 05:01:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-16660 The assumption that I am doing this “for some man”, that it is “torture”, and that either myself or my partner must be “damaged” for enjoying this? That’s not just “voicing an opinion”, that’s outright body-shaming.

I have dated (and had sex with) women who shaved/waxed absolutely everything, and with women who let it all grow long, and with everything in-between. I’ve dated (and had sex with) men who pluck out every hair, and men who can only be described as “fuzzy” (yes, my current lover has back hair — and I love touching his body anyway). What I have NO interest in is someone who tells me that however I choose to groom is “unnatural” and “damaged”.

]]> By: Karen Elizabeth McMichael http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-17365 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 05:01:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-17365 The assumption that I am doing this “for some man”, that it is “torture”, and that either myself or my partner must be “damaged” for enjoying this? That’s not just “voicing an opinion”, that’s outright body-shaming.

I have dated (and had sex with) women who shaved/waxed absolutely everything, and with women who let it all grow long, and with everything in-between. I’ve dated (and had sex with) men who pluck out every hair, and men who can only be described as “fuzzy” (yes, my current lover has back hair — and I love touching his body anyway). What I have NO interest in is someone who tells me that however I choose to groom is “unnatural” and “damaged”.

]]> By: Wes http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-16659 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 00:28:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-16659 Yes, it was such an original idea to be “clean”-shaven and now it is your preference..but 20 years ago women chose not to be “clean”-shaven. During college, all women had huge, ungroomed, bushes. Men were not complaining nor were women embarrassed to let you pull those panties down to see their hair garden. The last 10 years, at least 3 women apologized to me before the deed because they did not wax sufficiently. Waxing sucks because it strips (pun) the joy out of spontaneous f-ing. I used to love to see what was below – is she a real blonde, is she red everywhere? Now, forget it..it is so premeditated. Lucky that my girl grows it out.

]]> By: Wes http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-17364 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 00:28:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-17364 Yes, it was such an original idea to be “clean”-shaven and now it is your preference..but 20 years ago women chose not to be “clean”-shaven. During college, all women had huge, ungroomed, bushes. Men were not complaining nor were women embarrassed to let you pull those panties down to see their hair garden. The last 10 years, at least 3 women apologized to me before the deed because they did not wax sufficiently. Waxing sucks because it strips (pun) the joy out of spontaneous f-ing. I used to love to see what was below – is she a real blonde, is she red everywhere? Now, forget it..it is so premeditated. Lucky that my girl grows it out.

]]> By: BigJD http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-16650 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 18:09:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-16650 I don’t think most men care if the women they are with are” natural” or “bald.” Of those that do, probably as many or more prefer the natural look. Personally, I find that shaving always leaves a “5 o’clock shadow” that is quite pathetic. This is a fad that deserves to die.

]]> By: BigJD http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-17363 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 18:09:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-17363 I don’t think most men care if the women they are with are” natural” or “bald.” Of those that do, probably as many or more prefer the natural look. Personally, I find that shaving always leaves a “5 o’clock shadow” that is quite pathetic. This is a fad that deserves to die.

]]> By: Babe Scanlon http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-17362 Sat, 24 Aug 2013 18:52:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-17362 But I do think that voicing an opinion is not the same as shaming.

]]> By: Babe Scanlon http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-16628 Sat, 24 Aug 2013 18:52:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-16628 But I do think that voicing an opinion is not the same as shaming.

]]> By: Babe Scanlon http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-17361 Sat, 24 Aug 2013 17:50:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-17361 I agree. As long as people are doing it as their own preference. I’ve known too many people who have done it because of pressure. Also I fear the infantilization of women’s sexuality.

]]> By: Babe Scanlon http://sfappeal.com/2013/08/stop-waxing-and-get-yourself-a-pubic-wig/#comment-16627 Sat, 24 Aug 2013 17:50:00 +0000 http://sfappeal.com/?p=55577#comment-16627 I agree. As long as people are doing it as their own preference. I’ve known too many people who have done it because of pressure. Also I fear the infantilization of women’s sexuality.

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